True, children's creativity is quite demolition. But natural. You should not be surprised that instead of flipping through the book, the child starts tearing the book as part of the desire to know the properties of paper. But while everyone is sitting over a game with precise instructions, you adults get upset that the child does not understand or destroy something while playing, while the child is unhappy that he cannot do things his way.
Playing with your child is not a "game" unless you both have fun. If you goog the phrase playing with children , you will find many claims by experts about how important parent child play is for both parties involved. They describe such an activity as a way of creating a bond and getting to know your child, as an opportunity for fun and healthy exercise, and as a way to teach your child new skills. However, you will also find contributions from parents, mostly mothers, confessing that they play with children because they feel guilty but actually hate it.